See also Preparing for change about leaving primary and secondary school.
Ellen Notbohm’s son, Bryce, says, “I always wanted to learn to do things for myself. Without that, I how would I ever have freedom?” See also about Ellen.
See also The loving push Best-selling author, autism advocate, and animal science professor Dr. Temple Grandin joins psychologist and autism specialist Dr. Debra Moore in spelling out what steps you can take to restore your child’s hope and motivation, and what you must avoid.
- The National Autistic Society has produced a guide to social skills. Click on one of the
following: Children Teenagers
- Here is a review of an animation game that it is said could help children with autism develop social skills. See the maker’s website for more information, including What it does and Scientific research. At time of launch, July 2015, it was pricey.
- Prep for social success is a book aimed at parents of children on the autistic spectrum. Amazon offers an eBook version. The Amazon page says that it offers a four step programmeSocial stories for kids with Aspergers help to teach these skills in a simple and direct way that kids better understand.: PLAN, REHEARSE, ENCOURAGE, PRAISE and, the PREP program can be applied to a number of settings including school and group activities such as sports or clubs. There are good reviews on Amazon but the NAS, Ambitious about Autism and NetMums did not seem to mention the book as of Aug 2015. Click icon to see the authors’ Facebook site.
Social stories for kids with Asperger’s can help to teach basic social skills in a simple and direct way that they can understand.
- For an example, click icon for a video clip explaining having blood drawn.
- Here is a guide to social stories.
- This is a book of containing many social stories – The New Social Stories book (2015). See: Amazon Good Reads. Have a look at four examples by clicking Look Inside on the Amazon page and then clicking First pages in the left margin.
Autism assistance dogs
Specially trained dogs can be a great help to people with autism but they are very hard to come by in the UK. Here are some links:
- Autism service dogs: A description the idea from a charity based in the USA.
- Dogs for good has centres around the UK. They hold workshops to help families get the most out of their pet dog for a child with autism. The booking link at the bottom of the page takes you to locations of workshops, e.g. Leicester. See also FAQ about the barriers and options.
- Here is a heart-warming story about a boy and his dog working together particularly well.
Click icon for an autism help sheet on preparing for appointments with medical or clinical professionals, produced by a speech therapist with Options. See also more help sheets.
Explaining to a child
- Children with special needs: How to explain disability to a child – Huffington Post. See article
- Question: We recently got a diagnosis. How should I explain high functioning autism to my affected son and his ‘typical’ siblings? See: Answer. Also, this book is highly recommended by parents. See Amazon UK
- 15 children’s books. See article Amazon UK
Click play button for a video for children explaining autism. It comes from the Facebook page on the right.
The “Pokemon Go” craze has been linked to car crashes, grim discoveries and even reports of people falling off a cliff. But the wildly popular mobile game has also led to a beautiful awakening in a 6-year-old boy named Ralphie. See article.
Computer games are said to be beneficial for children on the spectrum. Here are two web sites, the first offering help in choosing games and the second offering a self-contained experience with the games on the site.
- Learning Works for Kids is a site based in the USA.
- It identifies computer games that they say help with particular learning or life skills. The Find Games or Apps menu option takes you to their search page. This is free to use.
- They also offer more, see compare, but UK residents might want to keep it simple.
- The approach is said to draw on original research and decades of experience in education and psychology – see their About page.
- Autism Games is a website created by a university and an eTherapy centre in Australia. It is free to use and it aims to assist children with moderate to severe autism to develop independent living skills. Click on website and hover over the Games menu to see what is available.
One mother asks, Has anyone had any positive outcomes of their children catching up when they are older? Click icon to see discussion.
Thula the therapy cat
Iris was a 6 year old on the autism spectrum. Her mother was surprised to see the way her daughter bonded with a cat that the family was looking after. She bought a cat of a recommend bread. Here is a brief video presentation of the story and here is an illustrated article. See also more pictures.
Here is another case of a father who took is son cat shopping at an animal shelter.
A magazine offering information, encouragement and support for parents of children with autism spectrum conditions. For four issues a year, AuKids costs £15 per year and includes access to a downloadable archive, too. They offer an Ask the Experts section, among other things. Click icon for information. Visitors can get a rough idea what each issue contains in the Archive section.
See Welcome page to download a sample copy of the magazine. The website and publishers have a UK address.
- Do you fidget at your desk? Here is an article about a fidget cube. See Amazon.
- Bouncy Bands look like an interesting idea for children with fidgety feet. It gets the thumbs up from a teacher in the UK in principle. Seems tricky to get in the UK, though. Amazon UK stocks them. Make sure you get a pipe for the desk or chair leg to stop the band sliding down.
- ERIC website has a page about children with additional needs. See also: website about – it includes an outline of their services. Help & support menu along the top of their screen, e.g. helpline includes email address.
- Bladder & bowel is a UK Disability Living support group for promoting continence and product awareness. Their helpline is 0161 607 8219, a Manchester number. Click also for email address.
- Ambitious About Autism have published a Guide for parents.
- Here is an on-line Discussion that might be worth a look.
Click icon to read about parents whose school-age children have either autism or Aspergers.
Older children’s experiences
The Ambitious About Autism website publishes experiences of education. For example Jack . How a visit to his GP turned things round. Looking back he says, ‘I have always thought of autism as a different language to English.”
Click icon for a parent’s guide to internet safety for their child with a learning disability.
Children with autism often have sensory issues. They may be fussy about the clothes they wear, for example. Hear is a list of some of the suppliers of specialist clothing .
Some children with autism may engage in fecal smearing. Click on this forum to find out how mothers tackle the problem. Hear is a list of some of the discussion and supplier sites of specialist body suits.
Lincolnshire County Council provide an Early Support, Care and Co-ordination service, or ESCO for short. The eligibility criteria have been extended from children with complex health needs or disabilities under five to include young people up to eighteen years of age.
Click icon for more information.
Please be aware that we, at GAIN, are not qualified to give advice. See disclaimer.